Physical force is this narcissist's preferred method of mistreatment. This type will often experiment with different forms of indirect physical attacks during the initial love-bombing phase. However, once they believe they have their target under control emotionally and mentally, they then begin to act out a series of direct physical attacks. This is done to escalate their mistreatment and keep their target under control.

The physically abusive narcissist does not begin with violence. They begin with psychological erosion, as all narcissists do. They break down your sense of reality, your self-worth, and your connections to others. Only when they believe you are sufficiently isolated and confused do they introduce physical intimidation and violence. By that point, you may feel trapped, unsure of yourself, and unable to imagine leaving.