
One of the biggest mistakes couples make is assuming that low desire has only one cause. The mind craves simple explanations. You want to believe that if you can just identify the single broken piece, you can fix it and everything will return to how it was. So you search for the culprit. Maybe you decide that your wife is no longer attracted to you. Maybe you decide that marriage itself has killed the spark. Maybe you blame yourself, wondering if you are simply not good enough in bed or not exciting enough as a partner. The problem with this kind of thinking is that intimacy in a long term relationship rarely fails for just one reason. It erodes slowly, the result of several small shifts happening at the same time, overlapping and reinforcing each other until the distance feels permanent and unexplainable.



















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